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Parental Alienation Syndrome
Forensic Psychologist, Deirdre Conway Rand, Ph.D.
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THE SPECTRUM OF PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME (PART II)
Deirdre Conway Rand, Ph.D.
This three-part article reviews the literature on the Parental Alienation
Syndrome (PAS) as formulated by Dr. Richard Gardner and seeks to integrate
his work with research on high conflict divorce and the work of other professionals
in this arena. Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is a distinctive
form of high conflict divorce in which the child becomes aligned with one
parent and preoccupied with unjustified and/or exaggerated denigration
of the other, target parent. In severe cases, the child's once love-bonded
relationship with the target/rejected parent is destroyed. Part 11
begins with sections on the child in PAS, the target/alienated par ant
and the third parties who become involved, including family, friends, lawyers,
mental health professionals, and sometimes cults. The material presented
on PAS in the legal arena is devoted to what attorneys and judges have
to say about PAS, which can be a key issue in certain depend ency and criminal
proceedings, as well as in family law court. The discussion of forensic
evaluations and PAS includes contributions by custody evaluators and others
who recommend considering PAS as a possible explanation when child sex
abuse is alleged in certain contexts. Case vignettes in Part II illustrate
psychological maltreatment of the child in severe PAS, a case in which
Child Protective Services was mobilized to bring pressure on the alienating
parent to reverse the PAS, and the use of PAS testimony in criminal proceedings
against a falsely accused parent. Part III will be devoted to interventions
in PAS, including some difficult but effective interventions implemented
by the author, her husband, Randy Rand, Ed.D., and a team of interveners,
including the judge and guardian ad litem.
Copyright 1997 American Journal of Forensic Psychology, Volume 15 Issue
4. The Journal is a publication of the American College of Forensic Psychology,
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Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) as formulated by Gardner involves a
cluster of child symptoms in divorce. Gardner views these as a syndrome
because of the number of cases in which these symptoms share a common underlying
etiology. This is a combination of the alienating parent's influence
and the child's active contributions to the campaign of denigration against
the alienated/target parent. The term PAS does not applywhen children
of divorce become alienated from a parent for reasons such as a parent's
lack of interest in or rejection of the child; significant deficits in
a rejected parent's functioning which may not rise to the level of abuse;
or the child being subjected to bona fide parental abuse or neglect.
These situations should be given the generic label of parent-child alienation.
The Parental Alienation Syndrome as conceived of by Gardner is a type of
parent-child alienation but warrants a special descriptive term.
The benefit of using Gardner's terminology is that, where the facts of
a given case support a diagnosis of PAS, there is a body of knowledge regarding
which legal and therapeutic interventions are likely to be effective.
Part I of this article, published in a previous issue of the American
Journal of Forensic Psychology (Volume 15, issue 3, 1997), outlined Gardner's
formulation of PAS, discussed the contemporary social context in which
his ideas arose, and described the features of PAS which, especially in
more serious cases, make it a distinctive form of high conflict divorce.
The studies reviewed in Part I included a large scale research project
by Clawar and Rivlin, which was commissioned by the American Bar Association
Section on Family Law (1). Clinical studies of PAS by Dunne and Hedrick
(2), Lund (3) and Cartwright (4) were also discussed. Two case vignettes
were presented, one in which the mother was the alienating parent and the
other with the father in that role. Part I concluded with a section
on parents who induce alienation, utilizing divorce research and the work
of mental health professionals who deal with divorce families in the forensic
arena. Part II begins with the child.
THE CHILD IN PAS
Children of Divorce
Most children and adolescents of divorce are eager to have an ongoing
relationship with both parents. In a nonclinical sample of 131 children
from 60 divorce families, the majority of children were eager to visit
their
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noncustodial fathers and often wanted more time than the usual every
other-weekend allowed (5). This finding held at follow-ups 18 months
and 5 years later. For children whose fathers did not take much of
an interest in them, their longing for both parents was very painful.
Where the father did take an interest, 20 percent of children were in considerable
conflict about visiting and 11 percent were genuinely reluctant to visit,
most notably those who were between 9 and 12 years of age. Nineteen
percent of the children who were reluctant or refusing to visit were aligned
with one parent in actively doing battle against the other parent.
Children in these alignments came to share the views and outrage of the
parent with whom the child identified, often the parent who felt abandoned
and rejected in the divorce. These children rejected the parent who
was perceived as deserting the family, despite a previously close, loving
relationship with that parent. Children in alignments were found
to be less psychologically healthy than those whose divorce adjustment
allowed them to maintain their affection for both parents.
Children's Alignments in High Conflict Families
Johnston and Campbell's research on divorce families in high conflict
for three years or more found a measurable degree of alignment between
children and one parent in 35 percent to 40 percent of children from-7
to 14 years of age (6). Similar ratios were obtained by Lampel, who
studied latency-age children participating in custody evaluations (7).
Comparing aligned children with non-aligned children, Lampel found that
the aligned children tested as angrier, less well adjusted, and less able
to conceptualize complex situations. They expressed greater self
confidence, however, possibly reflecting the relief obtained by opting
for a simplified, relatively black-and-white solution, as opposed to feeling
"caught in the middle" of parental conflicts. Published in 1996,
this article of Lampel refers to Gardner's work on PAS.
Children Who Reject One Parent
Ten years earlier, Lampel reported on 18 consecutively referred high
conflict divorce families, including a group of children who actively
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rejected one parent (8). In these seven cases, the rejected parent
was the father. Lampel found the child's lack of normal ambivalence
noteworthy in these seven cases and further observed intense collusion
between mother and child. Lampel implemented a family intervention
strategy which treated these children's reactions as a phobia with hysterical
features. One child who was placed with the rejected parent for six
to eight weeks while Lampel worked intensively with all family members
reported a marked reduction in symptomatology. Of the remaining cases
treated with phobia reduction techniques, results ranged from minor improvement
to deterioration. In the three cases where intervention clearly failed,
Lampel concluded it was because the mother's collusive involvement with
the child was too strong.
Children Who Refuse Visitation
According to Johnston in 1993, " It is surprising that such a perplexing
and serious problem as children's refusal to visit has received so little
systematic attention by researchers " (9. p. 110). In a study focused
specifically on this problem, Johnston recognized Gardner's work on PAS.
Results of research by Johnston and her colleagues led to the conclusion
that children's resistance or refusal to visit a nonresidential parent
after separation and divorce is an overt behavioral symptom that can have
its roots in multiple and often interlocking psychological, developmental
and family systemic processes. Clawar and Rivlin articulated similar
findings in their study published two years earlier ( 1 ).
Developmental Issues of Children Who Refuse Visitation
Analysis of data from 70 high conflict divorce families enabled Johnston
and her colleagues to identify specific developmental issues for each age
group which can impact children's reluctance and refusal to visit.
Emotional disturbance of the primary parent, usually the mother, was found
to exacerbate developmental effects. For 2- to 3-year-olds, age appropriate
separation anxiety from the mother was found to be a factor in resistance
to visitation. In normal development, children this age have not
yet developed an internalized image of the primary parent figure.
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Their sense of time is not yet sufficiently developed for them to understand
that they will be getting back to the primary parent within a comfortable
time frame. Parents may blame each other when children this age display
resistance to visitation, even though such problems may be due in part
to developmental factors.
Johnston found that 3 to 6 year-old children in high conflict divorce
tended to shift their allegiances depending on which parent they were with.
This may contribute to children's difficulty in transitioning from one
home to another. Normally, children in this age group have not yet
learned to entertain two conflicting points of view. As a result,
when the child is told in mother's home that father does not provide enough
money, the child will temporarily align with mother. The child will
shift allegiance to father when told in his home that mother just wastes
the money. Children from 3-6 years of age become easily confused
and can readily excite concern and chaos by telling different stories to
each parent. In addition, the normal course of development is for
children's preferences to shift back and forth from one parent to the other
as they grow older and sort out their gender identity. Children in
the 3-6 age range experience a strong drive to align with the opposite
sex parent and to compete with and to exclude the same sex parent.
In divorce, the young child's developmentally normal fantasies about eliminating
the same sex parent may be fulfilled. This creates intense guilt
and anxiety for the child, which can contribute to resistance to visitation.
Children of divorce in the 6- to 7-year age range are more likely to
suffer from loyalty conflicts, and to be concerned about hurting their
parents. Such conflicts reflect the normal child's growing sense
of morality and capacity to see things from the viewpoint of another.
Children 7 to 9 years of age have begun to develop the capacity to imagine
how their parents view them and to experience the cognitive dissonance
of their parents' conflicting views. There may be a growing need
to resolve such conflicts because children in this age range experience
the loyalty conflicts of divorce more acutely.
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conflict divorce children in the 9- to 12-year-old group are particularly
vulnerable to forming strong, PAS type alignments with one parent, as they
try to "resolve" their earlier loyalty conflicts. Johnston noted
that adults also tended to expect more of children this age, viewing them
as "old enough to take a stand" in parental disputes. Forty-three
percent of these children were in strong alignments and 29 percent in mild
alignments. According to Johnston, these figures approach Gardner's
estimate that 90 percent of the children he has assessed in custody evaluations
exhibit varying degrees of PAS. Johnston found that in some cases,
parent/child alignments often continue for several years into mid-adolescence.
As teenagers, some aligned youngsters develop the capacity to take a more
objective, independent stance. However, a significant proportion
of high conflict divorce children are unable to withdraw from the parental
fights and maintain their stance of rejection and denigration toward the
target parent throughout adolescence. Strong Alignments Johnston found
that 28 to 43 percent of the 9- to 12-year-olds were in what she termed
"strong alignments," characterized by consistent rejection and denigration
of the other parent (9). Children tended to make stronger alliances
with the more emotionally dysfunctional parent, who was more likely to
be the mother. In Impasses of Divorce, Johnston described children
in strong alignments as forfeiting their childhood by merging psychologically
with a parent who was raging, paranoid, or sullenly depressed (6).
Factors within the child which contributed to the formation of strong alignments
were found to be: 1) need to protect a parent who was decompensating, depressed,
panicky or needy; 2) need to avoid the wrath or rejection of a powerful,
dominant parent (often the custodial parent on whom the child was dependent;
and 3) need to hold onto the parent the child was most afraid of losing,
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15, NUMBER 4 1997 45 Extreme Alignments Among children who were refusing
visitation, Johnston identified a particularly troubled group of children
whom she described as being in "extreme alignments" (9). In her most
recent book, she and Roseby reserved Gardner's label "parent alienation
syndrome" for these cases (10). Children in extreme alignments were
more likely to be viewed as disturbed by parents, teachers and clinicians
(9). These children exhibited bizarre and sometimes destructive behavior.
They were more likely to display unintegrated, chaotic attitudes with few
workable defenses. Often the child's negative interpretation and
distortions of the target parent's character and behavior were found to
have a bizarre quality (6, 9). The case vignette of Mr. and Mrs.
C in Part ( I ) I described how the behavior of their daughter, V, became
increasingly bizarre and self-destructive especially after her father gained
sole custody in dependency court based on false allegations of sexual abuse
against Mrs. C's new husband. Pseudologia Fantastica Once separated from
her mother, V's stories of abuse by her stepfather became more numerous
and improbable, including charges of repeated rape although the gynecological
exam was normal. Bernet suggested that. the century-old concept of
pseudologia fantastica is one explanation for elaborate, implausible, untruthful
reports of abuse (11 ). Children who exhibit pseudologia fantastica,
represent certain fantasies as if they were actual occurrences, although
there is little or no reality basis for these stories. Ditrich posited
that children who engage in pseudologia fantastica do so in order to defend
against the pain of an unbearable, present reality ( 12). V engaged
in pseudologia fantastica in part to cope with the unbearable loss of her
mother, who had been the primary parent. Her father, Mr. C was so
driven by his need for revenge against V's mother that he encouraged and
reinforced V's use of pseudologia fantastica instead of providing reality
testing. Failed Separation-Individuation In a recent book chapter entitled
"Parental Alignments and Alienation Among Children of High Conflict Divorce,"
Johnston and Roseby opined, "Rather than seeing this syndrome as being
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are a later manifestation of the failed separation-individuation process
in especially vulnerable children who have been exposed to disturbed family
relationships during their early years" (10; p. 202). These disturbed
family relationships are viewed as the byproduct of interparental conflict
and narcissistic disturbance of one or both parents. These authors
hypothesize that the more extreme forms of parent alienation in early adolescence
have their roots in failed separation-individuation from the alienating
parent during the earliest years of the child's life. This developmental
failure adversely affects the young person's life and developing sense
of self. The most important ingredient in certain severe parental
alienation cases, according to Johnson and Roseby, is the child's vulnerability
and receptivity to the alienating parent, rather than "conscious, pernicious
brainwashing" by an embittered parent.
In contrast to this view, mental health professionals practicing in
the forensic arena often find evidence of substantial volitional activity
on the part of the alienating parent in severe PAS. For example,
in the case of Mr. and Mrs. L in Part I, the custody evaluator and others
observed that the mother timed her suspected abuse report to authorities
in such a way as to prevent father's visitation from going forward.
Mrs. L was also observed to make denigrating remarks about Mr. L in front
of the child. Whether or not these behaviors were "conscious" or
"unconscious," Mrs. L was the person responsible for them and they did
impact the child's relationship with the father.
Important Deviations From Usual Developmental Trends
When children who are resistant to visitation deviate from usual developmental
trends, it is important to evaluate and understand the reason. Children
who form consistent alignments with an alienating parent may never have
separated psychologically from that parent (9, 10). Examples of this
are described by Dunne and Hedrick in their study of 16 severe PAS families
(2), which was reviewed in Part I. There are a variety of contributing
factors to children forming strong parent-child alignments before the highest
risk period of 9 to 12 years of age. These factors include: 1) a
failed separation-individuation process between parent and
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child; 2) intense parental pressure; 3) a child with precocious cognitive
development who is more sensitive and vulnerable to parental conflict.
Children can become aligned with one parent even though there is relatively
little overt conflict and estrangement between the parents (9). Seemingly
mild and subtle forms of parental influence can have significant effects,
according to Clawar and Rivlin ( 1 ). Child's Active Contributions in PAS
The fact that Gardner identifies the child as an active participant
in the PAS is sometimes overlooked. Active contributions by the child
can be part of an effort to take care of an angry, disturbed, or otherwise
troubled parent with whom the child is aligned. Some PAS children manipulate
conflicts between the parents for the feeling of power it gives them in
the divorce family situation which is otherwise beyond their control. Young
adolescents in search of greater freedom may amplify their complaints about
a stricter parent to the more per missive one, capitalizing on the permissive
parent's eagerness for validation of his or her fixed negative view of
the other parent. This reinforces the permissive parent's inability
to contain the child and exacerbates acting out behavior. Regardless of
the relative contributions to the PAS by the alienating parent or the aligned
child, a mutually reinforcing feedback loop may develop which is resistant
to outside influence and to reality testing. A self generating "
brainwashing " process results. In Munchausen syndrome by proxy (MSP) involving
older children, it is the parent who originally initiated the child's factitious
illness or victimization. In the context of a continued symbiotic
parent/child relation ship, older children may then learn to set up this
situation themselves, producing factitious symptoms which induce a complicitous
response from the MSP parent (13). Similarly, in moderate to severe
PAS, children may learn to get their needs met by fabrication and manipulation.
Where there is a particularly enmeshed relationship between the aligned
parent and child, the child's legitimate strivings for autonomy are continually
under mined.
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The Overburdened Child
Divorce almost inevitably burdens children with greater responsibilities
and makes them feel less cared for. Children of chronically troubled
parents bear a greater burden. They are more likely to find themselves
alone and isolated in caring for a disorganized, alcoholic, intensely dependent,
hysically ill, or chronically enraged parent. The needs of the troubled
parent override the developmental needs of the child, with the result that
the child becomes psychologically depleted and their own emotional and
social progress is crippled. Wallerstein and Blakeslee used the term
"overburdened child" to describe this problem ( 14). Wallerstein
has encountered PAS [personal communication to the author, 1991], but she
prefers to conceptualize it from the "overburdened child" framework.
The Psychologically Battered Child
According to Garbarino, et al., psychological maltreatment of children
is more likely to occur in families where the atmosphere is one of stress,
tension and aggression (15), an apt description of high conflict divorce.
The Psychologically Battered Child, published in 1988, does not mention
divorce directly but uses such terms as "marital discord" and "family breakdown."
The special problems of children of divorce are more fully recognized in
a subsequent book by Garbarino and Stott, in which Gardner's work is cited
numerous times, including his work on PAS ( 16).
According to Garbarino et al., psychological maltreatment can be viewed
as a pattern of adult behavior which is psychologically destructive to
the child, sabotaging the child's normal development of self and social
competence ( 15). Five types of psychological maltreatment identified
by Garbarino et al. are adapted for PAS and described below:
1) Rejecting-The child's legitimate need for a relationship with both
parents is rejected. The child has reason to fear rejection and abandonment
by the alienating parent if positive feelings are expressed about the other
parent and the people and activities associated with that parent.
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2) Terrorizing-The child is bullied or verbally assaulted into being
terrified of the target parent. The child is psychologically brutalized
into fearing contact with the target parent and retribution by the alienating
parent for any positive feelings the child might have for the other parent.
Psychological abuse of this type may be accompanied by physical abuse.
3) Ignoring-The parent is emotionally unavailable to the child, leading
to feelings of neglect and abandonment. Divorced parents may selectively
withhold love and attention from the child, a subtler form of rejecting
which shapes the child's behavior.
4) Isolating- The parent isolates the child from normal opportunities
for social relations. In PAS, the child is prevented from participating
in normal social interactions with the target parent and relatives and
friends on that side of the family. In severe PAS, social isolation
of the child sometimes extends beyond the target parent to any social contacts
which might foster autonomy and independence.
5) Corrupting-The child is missocialized and reinforced by the alienating
parent for lying, manipulation, aggression toward others or behavior which
is self destructive. In PAS with false allegations of abuse, the
child is also corrupted by repeated in volvement in discussions of deviant
sexuality regarding the target parent or other family and friends associated
with that parent. In some cases of severe PAS, the alienating parent
trains the child to be an agent of aggression against the target parent,
with the child actively participating in deceits and manipulations for
the purpose of harassing and persecuting the target parent. This
is particularly likely to occur in what Turkat called Divorce Related Malicious
Parent Syndrome ( 17, 18).
Psychological maltreatment can be mild, moderate or severe. Effects
on the child may vary according to the child's age, temperament and ability
to access social support.
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Children who have been psychologically maltreated by the primary caretaker
on whom they depend are more likely to exhibit a variety of psychological
and social handicaps. These make them vulnerable to detrimental outside
influences. A case of psychological mal treatment by the alienating
parent is illustrated below.
Case Vignette of Psychological Maltreatment in Severe PAS
At 13, S was a socially isolated girl who believed she was stupid.
She spent recesses alone because the other kids did not accept her.
She got " D " grades in school. For as long as she could remember,
her mother told S she was incompetent and unlivable. S's mother
would tell her, " Even your baby half sister is smarter than you are ".
S hadn't seen her father in 10 years. Her parents separated when
she was only a few months old. Her father quickly found a new partner and
remarried. Although S's mother tried to stop father's contact with
the girl, father and his new wife visited with S regularly until she was
three. At that time, mother was successful in persuading child protective
services to stop the visitation based on allegations of sexual abuse.
Father turned to the family court for help. A custody evaluation
was conducted which exonerated the father of abuse charges and indicated
that the mother was using the abuse allegations to prevent the child from
having a relationship with her father. After several years of family
law litigation, the judge ordered reunification and appointed a reunification
therapist. For the next three years, the efforts of the reunification
therapist and family court mediator were thwarted by the mother.
Father became depressed and entered individual therapy.
A break in the case came when S's father was referred to a PAS expert
for consultation. The family mediator, reunification therapist and the
court were interested in the expert's input. The judge ordered mother
and daughter to meet with father's PAS expert to facilitate the father/daughter
reunification. The court also threatened mother with sanctions when
she refused to cooperate
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with the reunification plan. The reunification team, which now
included a guardian ad litem for the child, planned to gradually reacquaint
S with her father. The more gradual approach proved un successful.
The child remained hostile and staunchly aligned with her mother.
The team agreed that a different approach was needed. The PAS
expert held a meeting with S and the reunification therapist. The
expert established rapport with S, who was guarded but re sponsive.
He asked S questions and gave her information which made her curious about
her father. S indicated that she was interested in exploring the
contradiction between her belief that father molested her and her lack
of any actual memories of molestation. This opened the door for
the expert to provide age appropriate education about the concepts of thought
reform and " brainwashing ", as well as the problem of " false positives
" when abuse is alleged. S was surprised and pleased that the expert
thought her smart enough to learn about these adult concepts. For
the first time, she indicated she was willing to participate in a meeting
with her father.
Despite mother's continued efforts to interfere, a one day visit between
S and her father went forward when S was 13. The team agreed that
the PAS expert should be present at father's house. The girl was
thrilled by the interest shown in her by her father and step mother, whose
desire to please her contrasted sharply with how her mother treated her.
The expert had to intervene once when father and stepmother set reasonable
limits and S exploded. When the reunification plan called for overnight
visits to begin, S's court ordered individual therapist gave the girl her
pager number, with instructions to call day or night if problems arose.
S called to say that she didn't want to go back to her mother's.
The therapist then had to set limits with S, reminding her that everyone,
including S, had to adhere to the parameters of the reunification plan.
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S encountered intense anger from her mother each time she returned
home. One day, S took the risk of telling her mother that she wanted
a relationship with her father. Mother slapped S and told the girl
that she hated her and that the rest of mother's family hated S, too.
In spite of mother's efforts to punish and intimidate S, the girl's relationship
with her father and stepmother grew and the girl began to blossom.
For the first time, S began receiving above average marks in school.
She made friends and became involved with a boyfriend. Mother tried to
persuade S to get pregnant so that mother could have the baby. When
S was at her father's, mother maintained secret contact with her, encouraging
S's impulsive, angry outbursts and telling her daughter to run away, which
S did several times. As time went by, the reunification team and
the court recognized that mother's treatment of S amounted to serious psychological
abuse, interspersed with episodes of physical abuse.
Mother refused to participate in treatment or otherwise modify her
behavior and the court eventually gave custody to the father. In defiance
of court orders, mother continued her secret undermining of S's placement
with the father until S had a mental breakdown and had to be hospitalized.
Father and stepmother became so discouraged that they considered allowing
S to resume living with her mother. The reunification team, backed
by the judge, took the position that this was not an option. The
team continued to provide coordinated services in support of S's placement
with the father, and to offer outreach to the mother. By age 16,
S was doing well on a consistent basis. S remained troubled by her
mother's rejection and unwillingness to change but continued to hope that
someday her mother would get help.
THE TARGET/ALIENATED PARENT IN PAS
Gender
Children are about twice as likely to form PAS type alignments with
their mothers as they are with their fathers (3, 5, 6, 9). Similarly,
fathers are more likely than mothers to become target parents, especially
when
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Similarly, fathers are more likely than mothers to become target parents,
especially whenabuse is falsely alleged ( 19-23). These and other
gender differences were also discussed in Part I. Some fathers who
become target or rejected par ents in PAS give up and withdraw, contributing
to the significant dropout rate of fathers after divorce. Others persist
in their efforts to establish and maintain a meaningful post-divorce relationship
with their children despite daunting obstacles. What motivates these
men to persist in their efforts to father, despite rejection, calumny and
protracted litigation ?
Struggle for Paternal Identity
Huntington studied fathers in a nonclinical sample of 184 couples who
were cooperatively involved in divorce-specific activities at the Californa-based
Center for Families in Transition (24). As fathers struggled with
the issue of paternal identity after divorce, many found themselves closer
to their children as part-time fathers than they were during the marriage
when they were living with their children full-time. The emotional rewards
of fathering gave some men new meaning to their lives after the loss, loneliness
and feelings of failure engendered by the divorce. When fathers experienced
a positive response from their children, they were more likely to pursue
the relationship. Huntington also observed that fathers could be driven
off by the child's rejection and refusal to visit. She referenced
Gardner's 1985 article in which he introduced the term PAS.
Involuntary Child Absence Syndrome
According to Jacobs, a psychiatrist who edited a book on divorce and
fatherhood, the stress reaction of some fathers to divorce is due to involuntary
separation from their children (25). Such stress reactions in mothers
are often given a positive connotation and attributed to " maternal in
stincts ". Jacobs contends there is not nearly as much social support
for fathers in a similar situation. He brought attention to the fact
that fathers may have an equally strong need to nurture and parent, experiencing
profound feelings of loss and frustration when reduced to a post-divorce
relationship with their children which is minimal, diminished, or nonexistent.
Working with fathers in a clinical setting, Jacobs found that the ability
of these men to adjust to divorce was deeply impacted by their relationship
with their children. Some fathers reported that they had been the
primary parent during the marriage and that their children needed them
in order to cope with a mother who was chaotic and disturbed.
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The fathers Jacobs saw were convinced their children would suffer if
the father-child bond was ruptured. They felt frustrated and sabotaged
in their efforts to maintain the bond but refused to accept the idea that
their children could develop well if the father-child relationship was
severed. This was true for S's father in the case vignette above.
Jacobs reported that the idea of being a " visitor " in their children's
lives seemed second-rate and unacceptable to the fathers with whom he worked.
Common adjust ment reactions included anxiety, depression, hypervigilance
and outrage, especially in response to denigration and expressions of hatred
by their ex-wives.
Even if it was the father's decision to leave, he was often unprepared
for the emotional and practical consequences where his children were concerned.
Fathers of young children who were not guaranteed continued close contact
felt particularly outraged and betrayed by the system, which was seen as
unfair and biased toward mothers. Fantasies of self destruction, murder,
and/or kidnapping were common, although usually not acted upon.
Circumstances of the Separation Which Increase Risk of Becoming a Target
Parent
The likelihood that a mother or a father will become the target parent
in an alienation scenario increases according to who is seen as responsible
for the marital break-up (1, 5, 6, 9, 14). The risk increases when
the parent seen as responsible for the break-up is discovered to have actually
been unfaithful or becomes involved with a new partner immediately after
the separation (1). Leaving the marriage precipitously may also incur
in creased risk of becoming a target parent. The mother became the
target parent in this example:
Mrs. E was a good mother but she was also guilt ridden and conflict
avoidant. She tried to leave her husband several times but each time
he persuaded her to return. When she left for the last time, she
allowed the children, who were 3 and 5 years of age, tostay with their
father on what mother believed to be a temporary basis. She was shocked
at how the children treated her when she came to get them. They rejected
her using profanity. Father filed for custody, accusing his wife of drug
abuse, neglect and abandoning the children. He tricked Mrs. E.
into not attending the custody hearing, telling her it had been put off.
When mother failed to appear, the court granted father's motion for custody.
It took several months for Mrs. E. to get the court to order
a custody evaluation. By the time an evaluator was selected and the
evaluation got underway, the children had been living with their father
for a year. The evaluator observed that they were distant and somewhat
fearful of their mother and recommended that the children remain with the
father.
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Contributions by the Target Parent to PAS
The relative contribution of the target parent to the PAS scenario
varies widely, depending on the severity of the PAS, psychological issues
of one or both parents, the target parent's capacity to parent, and other
factors.
For intervention to be effective in PAS, it is important to carefully
assess the relative contributions of each parent and to consider their
relative capacities for a healthy parent/child relationship. Where the
target/rejected parent is seriously disturbed, has abused the child or
is seriously inadequate as a parent, the problem may be one of generic
parent alienation and is not properly called Parental Alienation Syndrome.
In mild to moderate PAS, behavior of the target parent may contribute
significantly, as in the case heard by Judge Tolbert which is further described
below (26). The nine-year-old girl was refusing to visit her father
and he claimed PAS by the mother. Based on the totality of the evidence,
however, the court concluded that father's behavior contributed significantly
to the child's refusal to visit. In particular, father was found
to be excessively rigid and insensitive to his daughter's needs, seemingly
an example of Johnston's observation that rejected parents are often inept
and unempathic with their children (6, 10).
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In severe PAS, the target parent may be relatively healthy and contribute
minimally to the PAS, compared to the alienating parent. This is
particularly likely to be the case with Divorce Related Malicious Parent
Syndrome, where the alienating parent's anger, aggression, manipulation
and deception tend to be driven by internal forces which far exceed external
realities and contributions of the target parent ( 17, 18). The case
vignette of Mr. and Mrs. C. in Part ( I ) demonstrated how a determined,
unscrupulous father succeeded in wresting custody from a fit, custodial
mother, who was the target parent.
According to Johnston's work with high conflict families, unresolved
anger and continued narcissistic injury of either parent may contribute
significantly to the child's rejection of one parent (6). Huntington
found that in a nonclinical divorce sample, fathers sometimes engaged in
controlling, provocative behavior in their efforts to reestablish a lost
sense of control, especially if the divorce was not of their own choosing
(24). Nicholas suggested that target parents may reinforce the PAS
by assuming an ambivalent or inconsistent stance toward custody after years
of litigation (27). Lund cited her experience with moderate PAS families
in which the hated parent, usually the father, often exhibited a distant,
rigid style which was seen by the child as authoritarian, especially in
comparison to the preferred parent, who was overly indulgent and permissive
(3). It is important not to overgeneralize, however, and to keep
in mind that behavior of the aligned parent and child may influence and
concretize the ambivalence reserve or indignation of the rejected parent.
Target Parents Who Are Falsely Accused
An accusation of child abuse, especially molestation, can quickly cut
off an accused parent's access to his child, pending an investigation (28).
Because sex abuse is often difficult if not impossible to disprove, the
accused parent may spend months and even years trying without success to
refute the charge. Clear resolution of such allegations may be impossible
as a result of the accusing parent's actions, poor training and technique
of the investigators, involvement of multiple agencies and lack of coordination
between agencies and different branches of the judicial system (6).
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Even if the charge is successfully refuted and the accused parent's
rights are reinstated, the parent has lost valuable time with the child,
damaging the parent-child relationship.
According to Patterson, additional repercussions for the falsely accused
parent include damage to personal dignity, reputation in the community,
and depletion of financial and other resources needed to defend the charge
and to preempt the possibility of criminal action (29). An unproved
accusation alone is sometimes enough to have an accused parent arrested
and held in jail until a preliminary hearing and beyond. A parent
who is criminally tried runs a significant risk of false conviction in
the current legal climate. When sex abuse is alleged today, the presumption
of innocence is often set aside with the justification that it is better
to convict an innocent person than to allow a real child abuser to go free.
Patterson's article references Gardner's book, The Parental Alienation
Syndrome and the Differentiation Between Fabricated and Genuine Child Sex
Abuse. Patterson concludes, " We can never serve a child's best interest
by denying him or her the love and affection of a parent who has himself
been victimized by a lie" (29; p. 941). '
Benign and Positive Characteristics of Target Parents
Studies of target parents who are falsely accused of abuse report they
tend to be less disturbed than their accusing counterparts (19, 21-23).
Blush and Ross observed that falsely accused fathers tended to display
passive or dependent features as compared with their more histrionic spouses
( 19, 21, 22). Sanders, an attorney who represents fathers in PAS
type cases, indicated that she often found her clients to be emotionally
and financially stable individuals who, prior to the separation, functioned
as the primary parent for their children (30). When Dunne and Hedrick
studied the effectiveness of various interventions in severe PAS, they
found that better outcomes were achieved when the alienated parent was
given custody (2). The alienating parents in the change of custody
cases exhibited significant emotional disturbance in contrast to some of
the target parents who were deemed fit and capable of establishing and
maintaining a healthy parent/child bond.
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Rogers reported similar findings in her review of cases in which certain
alienating parents who made false allegations of abuse were found to suffer
from Delusional Disorder, with the result that the father/target parents
were eventually awarded custody in several in stances (31 ). The
fact that target parents make good custodial parents in some cases is demonstrated
in the vignette of S and her father, reported above. S's father was
an unassuming man who worked in a clothing store. He was convinced
that his daughter could not grow up well without him and was determined
to play a positive role in her life. When he remarried, it was to a kind,
capable woman who took a strong interest in S and who provided invaluable
support when S was 13 and the father/daughter relationship was reestablished.
THIRD PARTIES WHO BECOME INVOLVED
Unholy Alliances and Tribal Warfare
In high conflict divorce, the social networks of the spouses can be
come incorporated into the dispute scenario, helping to maintain, solidify
or expand it, leading to "tribal warfare" (6). With the breakdown
of the marriage, once private details of the couple's relationship often
become the subject of lengthy conversations with sympathetic, potentially
supportive others about what went wrong and who is at fault. Hearing
primarily one side of the story, family, friends and professionals may
lose their objectivity as they try to protect someone they care about or
to bolster a parent's self esteem. Such support may be mixed, however,
with what is experienced by the distressed parent as criticism, interference,
obligations and demands which create stress above and beyond the divorce
itself.
Johnston found that women were more likely after separation to depend
economically on family members or kin. Women were also more likely
to involve these "support people" in the parental disputes (6). Third
parties entering the dispute initially were likely to do so on behalf of
the mother. According to Johnston, the other side typically responded
by as sembling a comparable array of allies. A stepwise progression
of active and reactive coalition building was then likely to ensue.
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New Partners
The advent of a new partner in divorce may escalate parental disputes
over the child or precipitate new ones (6). A parent who feels threatened
by an ex-spouse's new partner may initiate efforts to gain increased control
of custody and visitation. Sometimes, new partners are the instigators
and mobilizers of custody disputes, where previously there was little overt
conflict between the parents. The new partner may be experiencing
difficulties in the new marriage, feel a need to prove themselves, or be
gratifying their own needs for domination and control. Alternatively,
the new partner may bring a more objective viewpoint regarding the degree
to which the child is being harmed by an emotional disturbance of the parent
in the other household and provide a balancing influence.
Role of Mental Health Professionals
Mental health experts can become involved in contested custody/visitation
disputes in a variety of roles: as evaluators, therapists, advocates, mediators,
case managers, educators and/or consultants to parents or their attorneys.
Mental health professionals may assist in identifying the needs of the
child, assessing strengths and weaknesses of the parents, modifying the
specific dynamics of parental conflict and advising the courts. In
many jurisdictions, the courts are increasingly relying on the assistance
and input of mental health professionals. This entails rising costs
for divorcing parents who must pay for these services. Some argue
that mental health services which help to reduce the often escalating cycle
of action and reaction between the parents saves them money in the long
run by reducing litigation costs. On the other hand, mental health
services may be protracted and ineffective in high conflict cases.
Sometimes they actually cause damage to the parties and to family relationships.
Potentially Harmful Influence of Mental Health Professionals
Written and verbal statements by custody evaluators can have a negative
impact on disputing parents, especially when the situation is explained
in terms of what is wrong with the parents (6). Parents are particularly
vulnerable during the upheaval of the separation. Comments by mental
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health professionals in this context, especially when publicized, can
escalate parents' needs to vindicate and defend themselves from further
exposure and humiliation.
Lund pointed out that therapists, especially individual child therapists,
can unwittingly become part of the system maintaining PAS (3). This
is more likely to occur when the therapist takes statements by the aligned
parent and child at face value, lacks knowledge about PAS and avoids contact
with the target parent.
Campbell (32) discussed the pitfalls of triangulated relationships
in doing therapy with children of divorce, citing Gardner's first book
on PAS (33) in the opening paragraph. One of the problems for therapists
seeing children of divorce is that the parent who selects the child's therapist,
who brings the child for therapy and who arranges for payment is in a position
to influence the therapist regarding the therapist's role, the goals of
treat ment, and who participates. Therapists who are provided with
incomplete, selective data are at risk for reinforcing and endorsing the
idea that the child needs to be " saved " from the alienated parent.
A variation of the victim-villain-rescuer triangle may then develop.
Citing well known family therapist Murray Bowen, Campbell observed,
" When clients and therapists organize their relationship around the reciprocity
of victim and savior, the identity of each demands that the other persist
in their respective role " (34; p. 479). When abuse is alleged, advocate
therapists may become so overinvolved as to exhibit what amounts to a shared
paranoid disorder with the aligned parent and child (35).
Campbell observed that professionals can become slowly compromised
by the " us versus them " mentality in the context of adversarial family
relationships and legal proceedings (32). As discussed in the section
to follow, an advocate therapist for an aligned parent and child may inappropriately
use the therapy sessions to " validate " allegations of abuse against the
target parent, rather than helping the child adjust to the divorce and
maintain affection for both parents. The individual therapist for
an alienating parent may agree to recommend to the court that the client
have custody, without meeting the other parent. Target parents may
also recruit
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Parental Alienation Syndrome
Forensic Psychologist, Deirdre Conway Rand, Ph.D.
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advocate therapists to their side, as demonstrated by the father in
Judge Tolbert's case (26), which is presented below. Mental health
professionals who make custody recommendations without interviewing both
parents may be in violation of ethical standards. Where professionals
compromise themselves in high conflict cases, valuable information about
parental dynamics can often be gleaned from analyzing the process by which
this occurred. Influence of Therapist Attitudes
The fundamental beliefs of many therapists about the etiology of psychological
problems and what constitutes appropriate treatment can make the therapist
an unwitting reinforcer of alienation. Psychotherapy is a potent
form of social influence. Campbell conducted a study which revealed
that the majority of therapists make significantly more negative than positive
inferences about significant others in their client's lives (34).
In addition, therapists frequently assume that the client's psychological
distress has its origins in an interpersonal environment which is " disrespectful
psychologically avoidant, unempathic and punitive ". These assumptions
can substantially influence the course of treatment and the client's view
of their situation. Children of divorce may feel overwhelmed by the
chaos and hostility of their parents' conflicts. They may also feel
a sense of betrayal when a parent moves out and the parents are focusing
more on their conflicts with each other than on their parental responsibilities
(32).
Child therapists who are predisposed to making negative inferences
about significant others in the child's life may inadvertently reinforce
a child's sense of anger and blame toward a target parent, sometimes in
very subtle, pernicious ways. Where the therapist's own view of the
target/alienated parent is negative, even if only to mild degree, the therapist's
view is likely to adversely influence the child. This provides fertile
ground for the development and reinforcement of PAS. A detailed example
of such a process is presented in The Real World of Child Interrogations
which contains an analysis of multiple child therapy sessions in a contested
custody case (36). Transcripts of the sessions illustrate the process
by which the therapist helped teach the child to make abuse allegations
and reinforced the child's expressions of hatred toward the target parent
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Validators
When abuse is alleged, anyone in a position of authority can act as
a "validator," including therapists, police, child protection workers,
and medical personnel (37). Validators are professionals who, when
presented with allegations of abuse, assume that abuse occurred. They see
their role as validating the alleged abuse rather than conducting an objective
investigation. Validators are relatively easy to find, especially
when sought out by a parent seeking to strengthen their position in legal
proceedings.
Validator interviews of the child tend to promote the child's voicing
of an abuse scenario, whether or not abuse occurred. Real World of Child
Interrogations
Once the issue of molestation is raised, the child is often subjected
to repeated interviews and evaluations, sometimes more than 20, according
to a family law judge in California (28). An analysis of 150 tape-recorded
abuse interviews with children identified specific adult interviewer behaviors
which influence children to alter accounts and to say things that will
satisfy or please the interviewer (36). Most adults are unaware of
how their ideas and expectations teach children to conform their accounts
to the expectations of the adult interviewer. When the child is brought
by a parent for an abuse interview, the parent's report of what occurred
tends to shape the interviewer's ideas about what occurred and the questions
which are asked. These interviewer expectations are communicated
to the child through the adult's reactions, leading questions and other
suggestive techniques (e.g., drawings or " anatomical dolls " ).
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Suggestibility of Children's Recollections
There has been a growing body of research in recent years which shows
the potential for interviews to teach children what adults expect to hear.
Ceci and Bruck conducted a comprehensive historical review and synthesis
of this research in an article on the suggestibility of witnesses (38).
These authors cited Gardner as raising important questions about the ability
of powerful authority figures to coach children and about children's ability
to differentiate fact from fantasy. Ceci and Bruck's review resulted
in several important scientific findings:
1 ) There appear to be significant age differences in suggestibility,
with preschool children more vulnerable to suggestion than either school-age
children or adults.
2) Children can be led to make false or inaccurate reports about very
crucial, personally experienced, central events.
3) Children sometimes lie when the motivational structure is tilted
toward lying.
4) The previous points notwithstanding, children, including pre-schoolers,
are capable of recalling much that is forensically relevant.
Ceci and Bruck concluded that in order to know the reliability of a
child's report, the conditions surrounding the report need to be carefully
evaluated, including prior access to the child by an adult motivated to
distort the child's recollections. Distortions frequently occur as
a result of relentless and potent suggestions by adults, sometimes to the
point of outright coaching. Memory Research and its Forensic Implications
Many people subscribe to the incorrect belief that memory is somehow
fixed and not malleable. Loftus and her husband surveyed 169 people
from a variety of socioeconomic groups (39). The majority of respondents
endorsed the belief that everything we learn is permanently stored in the
mind and that consciously inaccessible details can be recovered with the
use of special techniques such as hypnosis. Psychology graduate
students were particularly prone to endorse this view, although it is disproved
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The implications for law enforcement and the courts are staggering
since eyewitness testimony is heavily relied upon in these settings.
The American Psychological Association sought to address these problems
where children are concerned, publishing a compilation of articles by psychology's
leading authorities on memory entitled The Suggestibility of Children's
Recollections: Implications for Eyewitness Testimony (40). Ceci and Loftus
were among the contributors. Parents as Interviewers
Parents who are preoccupied with suspicions of abuse by the other parent
often question their children repeatedly. Some false allegations
of abuse in divorce begin with a parent questioning the child after visitation
about a rash, a bruise, or bathing at the other parent's house. Everson
described the case of a six-year-old-boy who produced more and more elaborate
accounts of abuse in response to the attention and support he received
from his mother as they discussed " his memories " of abuse each night
at bedtime (41 ). Initially, the child provided a consistent, plausible
account of a teenage baby-sitter fondling his genitals and anus.
The baby-sitter confessed to this. Over the course of several months,
however, the child's description of what occurred became more elaborate,
bizarre, implausible, and finally impossible. According to Everson,
the child may have become confused about the source of his more fantastic
" memories " which probably grew out of the conversations with his mother.
This is sometimes referred as " source amnesia ". Everson referenced
Gardner's work relating to the assessment of child sexual abuse. When Cults
Have a Role in Parental Alienation
In extreme cases, a divorced parent determined to deprive the other
parent of a relationship with the child will join a cult for the powerful
help the group can provide in alienating the child from the other parent.
In an effort to recruit and control members, cults have perfected the art
of parental alienation. Cults are sometimes involved in parental
child abductions. Attorney Ford Greene, who specializes in litigation
against cults, contributed the following family law case (42). AMERICAN
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Mr. Y was wounded and angry when the mother of his only son decided
to end their common law marriage. Mrs. Y was eager to mediate the
dissolution and offered to stipulate to joint legal custody with reasonable
visitation to the father. Mr. Y refused and took Mrs. Y to court,
where the judge ordered the custody / visitation plan first suggested by
the mother. Mr. Y became involved with a quasi-religious cult.
He used his visitation time to involve his 10-year-old son in the group's
activities. Under the auspices of the group, the boy was regularly
hooked up to a bio feedback device for the purpose of training him to become
" emotionally disconnected " when thinking about or interacting with his
mother. The child's mental state and behavior gradually deteriorated.
One day, the boy did not return to his mother's home after school.
Instead, he rode his bike ten miles from school to the ferry, crossing
the bay and riding through a bad part of town to reach the group's headquarters
where his father was waiting for him. Mother turned to the court
for assistance in getting her son back and protecting him from the father
and the group. The group tried strenuously to prevent the court
from intervening, invoking the special protections the law provides for
religious beliefs. Greene, who was representing the mother, focused
on specific group practices which were physically or psychologically detrimental
to the child's best interests. He stayed away from the legitimacy
of the group's religious doctrines. After hearing the evidence, the
court found that the group's influence on the child was mentally and emotionally
detrimental. Mother was awarded sole legal and physical custody.
People tend to think of cults as large, well organized groups.
According to Singer and Lalich, however, cultic social organization can
also be found in very small groups, such as the Symbionese Liberation Army
(SLA) which abducted Patricia Hearst (43). Cults can be organized
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Regardless of size or thematic focus, cults share certain social structures
in common. The group is built around a charismatic leader who controls
the members directly, or indirectly with the help of loyal followers.
Cults routinely employ deception in recruiting, often using elaborate,
cleverly conceived fronts to conceal the true nature of their activities.
New members are taken through a progressive process of thought reform,
sometimes referred to as " brainwashing ". Compliance is obtained
in small steps which isolate inductees from the influence of non members
and which foster dependence on the group. The process discourages
criticism of the group's ideas and encourages inductees to replace " old
" ideas and relationships with the group's ideology, which is portrayed
as " new " and more advanced. Recruits are encouraged to reject the
past and to drastically reinterpret their life history. These tactics
destabilize the inductee's sense of self and increase motivation to serve
the group and its leader. When the recruit's indoctrination is complete,
he or she can then be deployed as an agent of the organization, to help
expand the group's financial resources, power, and influence.
Almost anyone can be drawn into a cult under the right set of circumstances
(43). People are most vulnerable to recruitment when they are depressed
and between affiliations. Almost by definition, parents of divorce
are " between affiliations ". To varying degrees, they are
also likely to experience depression at some point in the divorce process.
Religious cults may appeal to divorce parents who are seeking validation
of their blamelessness and moral superiority in the proceedings.
Pastors and other church members in fundamentalist religious cults may
openly denigrate the target / alienated parent to the children, claiming
the authority of their holy book in referring to the target parent as an
" adulterer ", " harlot " or " whore ".
In a presentation at a recent forensic conference, Bower (44) pointed
out similarities between the mechanisms by which cult leaders control their
followers and the tactics of alienating parents who form " unholy alliances
" with their children. Similar comparisons appear in Children Held
Hostage (1). This study of 700 divorce families, was reviewed in
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psychology of social influence, including indoctrination techniques
variously referred to as brainwashing, mind control, thought reform, modeling,
reeducation and coercive persuasion. Bower likened the alienating
parent to the leader of a one-on-one or small group cult, pointing out
that children's dependence on parents makes them vulnerable to this source
of influence. The aligned parent and child, along with other supporters
of the alienating parent's views, come to share, a closed, impermeable
belief system, similar to the fixed ideology of an organized cult.
In normal circumstances, the power differential in parent / child relationships
helps parents to instill a sense of conscience and moral values in their
children. As children grow, the love they experienced from their
par ents in early years becomes a model for treating others with courtesy
and considering other people's feelings. In more severe PAS
however, the child's social and moral development are to-opted to varying
degrees by the alienating parent's agenda. In extreme cases, children
growing up in the custody of an alienating parent become " corrupted,"
in the sense de fined by Garbarino et al. They are encouraged to
use deceit, manipulation and aggression in the service of the PAS agenda.
The SLA succeeded in " corrupting " Patricia Hearst for a time: After
she was subjected to isolation, indoctrination, terror and intimidation,
she was induced to participate in a bank robbery, a violation not only
of the law itself, but of her previous moral values. Once separated
from the SLA, she was able to resume prosocial values.
In extreme cases of cult indoctrination, members are trained to commit
suicide rather than have contact with " evil ", " dangerous " outsiders.
In a parallel situation, severe PAS sometimes involves direct or indirect
en couragement by the alienating parent for the child to threaten suicide
or homicide if forced to have contact with the alienated parent.
Johnston encountered a case in which a 10-year-old boy hung himself when
the court ordered that he be placed in the custody of his alienated father
(10). Two cases of attempted homicide by the child were reported
in Part I (4, 45). Both boys were in folie a deux relationships with
their disturbed mothers after the parents divorced.
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One boy tried to poison his father (4), the other tried to burn his
father's house down (45). Careful evaluation and case management
are required when there is reason to suspect that the child may be a danger
to self or others. Part III, devoted to interventions in PAS, will
include the case vignette of two sisters who threatened suicide and homicide
when told they would be court ordered to see their father. Father
had been the custodial parent per order of the family court. Mother
succeeded in alienating them and got custody through the dependency court,
by involving the children in false allegations of abuse. The girls'
threats were taken seriously and the family court ordered hospitalization
at a facility willing to deal with the possibility of PAS. In the
safety of a contained, closely monitored, therapeutic setting, the girls
were successfully returned to father's custody.
PAS IN THE LEGAL ARENA
Legal Recognition of PAS
An increasing number of attorneys are publishing articles which recognize
and seek to address the problem of parental alienation, variously using
the term Parental Alienation Syndrome in the title, in the text or in the
bibliography (30, 46, 47, 49, 50, 54, 55). California attorney Patrick
Clancy posts his Points and Authorities for the Admissibility of PAS Testimony
on his web site. An article by Wood opposes legal recognition of
PAS (56). Family law judges have been producing a growing body of
opinions which discuss PAS by name or include findings of parental alienation
without giving it a special label (26, 46, 47, 54-57). A 1997 issue
of The Judges' Journal included an article on managing visitation interference
by Turkat (57), who has been referencing Gardner's work on PAS for several
years. Judge Vernon Nakahara in Alameda County, California, spoke
with author Deirdre Rand about his opinion that judges need to be made
aware of Gardner's work on PAS. Judge Nakahara also shared his views
on the role of the family law court in dealing with PAS and other high
conflict cases.
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A Florida attorney was the first to write about PAS after Gardner introduced
the term in 1985. Palmer's article, published in 1988, described
PAS as a strategy some parents were using to avoid their obligation to
share parenting responsibility under Florida law (46). She discussed
two legal cases, including Schutz v. Schutz in which the judge opined:
" The Court has no doubt that the cause of the blind, brainwashed, bigoted,
belligerence of the children toward the father grew from the soil nurtured,
watered and tilled by the mother. The Court is thoroughly convinced
that the mother breached every duty she owed as the custodial parent to
the noncustodial parent of instilling love, respect and feeling in the
children for their father. Worse, she slowly dripped poison into
the minds of these children, maybe even beyond the power of this Court
to find the antidote " (46; pp. 361-362). Palmer foresaw the need
for early evaluation and intervention in cases of PAS and those with that
potential, in order to prevent the development of completed, intractable
alienation. She recommended the use of judicial sanctions to hold
alienating parents accountable and to provide incentives for changing their
behavior.
In 1991, a Canadian law journal published an article by Goldwater which
strongly supports legal recognition of PAS (47). According to Goldwater,
Gardner's 1989 book on family evaluation in child custody (48) " is certainly
required reading for the family practitioner and should be considered the
source document on the phenomenon of parental alienation syndrome...Indeed,
there is a moral failure in smugly asserting that children have `rights'
without taking into account their evident lack of autonomy and their material
and psychological vulnerability to control and manipulation" (47; pp. 121-122).
Although the title is in French, most of the text is in English.
Canadian law and case citations are discussed.
In 1993, two articles were written by attorneys; one from New Hampshire
(49) and one from South Carolina (30). These articles took a practical
approach to the special difficulties PAS cases pose to family lawyers,
mental health professionals and to the courts. Ward and Harvey are
a psychologist and an attorney, respectively (49). Their article
distinguishes between " typical " divorce and " alienation ". Alienation
cases are distinguished by the nature and extent of a parent's willingness
to involve the children.
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According to Ward and Harvey, alienation family systems require their
own specific interventions, a point Gardner continues to em phasize.
They build on Gardner's concepts about PAS and synthesize them with Johnston's
work on the divorce impasse and high conflict families.
Sanders discussed PAS along with bad-faith relocation and fabricated
sex-abuse allegations (30). She referred to Parental Alienation Syndrome
as a disorder named by Gardner. She thought that mental health profes
sionals and family law judges were becoming increasingly aware of the harmful
process of parental alienation, regardless of the terminology used.
Support for this contention can be found by perusing the programs of family
law conferences in recent years. Since at least 1994, conferences
of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts have featured presenta
tions on parental alienation. Gardner's concepts regarding PAS are often
referred to and his books on PAS are listed in the bibliographies of hand
outs (50-53). Gardner himself presents at major conferences, for
example, the Children's Rights Council Conference in Washington, D.C.,
which is attended by mediators, psychologists, and attorneys, who receive
con tinuing education credits. Continuing education credits were
also available to professionals attending the 1997 conference of the American
College of Forensic Psychology, which included a presentation on the similarities
between PAS and cults, discussed above (44).
Practicing psychology and law in Wisconsin, Waldron and Joanis put
forth the view that PAS was readily accepted not because it was a "discovery"
but because Gardner succeeded in conceptualizing and describing a familiar,
complex, perplexing problem of divorce families which can have tragic consequences
and is resistant to change (54). The article contains a number of case
citations and a discussion of Karen "PP" v. Clyde "00. " This case involved
a mother who sought to have father's visitation supervised because of alleged
sexual abuse. Opinions of the ex-parts involved differed as to whether
or not the alleged abuse occurred. According to Waldron and Harvey,
this case is often inaccurately depicted as showing the " dangers " of
PAS. The court's opinion is often criticized for quoting Gardner's
work at length (56), as if this was the sole basis for the court's findings.
Pages 71 to 92
Parental Alienation Syndrome
Forensic Psychologist, Deirdre Conway Rand, Ph.D.
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the court's findings. However, when Waldron and Joanis examined
the text of the court's rulings, they found that the court's decisions
were based on the evidence presented, not on Gardner's theories.
Their article is distinguished for its use of the social influence model
outlined by Clawar and Rivlin and its reference to their research.
In Florida, Walsh and Bone practice law and psychotherapy, respectively
(55). Their article on PAS, published in June, 1997, appears to be
the most recent paper on the subject by attorneys. According to these
authors, courts in their state are not at all hesitant about making a decision
regarding PAS where the challenging parent can present credible proof and
evidence of incidents in which the other parent has been practicing alienation
and visitation interference. Four Florida case citations are provided
in support of this assertion. These authors highlight the need to
as sess and understand parental deceit and manipulation, referencing Turkat's
work on child visitation interference (57). " Make no mistake about
it. Individuals with either PAS or a related malicious syndrome
will and do lie! They are convincing witnesses, and their manipulative
skills may influence others to follow suit" (55; p. 94).
One of the presentations (50) and three of the articles (49, 54, 55)
mentioned above were coauthored by an attorney and a mental health professional.
This may represent a trend of increasing collaboration between legal
and mental health professionals who provide divorce related services.
Recently, psychologist Sharon Montgomery from New Jersey dis cussed PAS
during a panel presentation with two attorneys (58). California psychologist
Anita Lampel (7, 8) began editing The Family LAP in 1996. The first
two issues of this newsletter for attorneys and others interested in family
law and psychology contained columns on children of divorce who are alienated
or who have rejected one parent (59).
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Wood argued against the admission of PAS testimony in the Loyola of
Los Angeles Law Review (56). She was outraged over the outcome of
a divorce/custody dispute in which Dr. Gardner testified. Father
was awarded custody after the court found that mother's allegations of
abuse against him were without merit. Wood attacked Gardner personally
as well as arguing against his ideas. She warned that an erroneous
decision based on PAS testimony could result in a child being placed with
an abusive parent and leave the child with " no one to tell."
Wood failed to point out that allowing a child to remain in the custody
of a parent engaged in serious alienating behavior, if such is the case,
puts the child at risk for significant psychological maltreatment, as in
the case vignette of S, above.
Judge Tolbert on PAS
An extensive opinion by Judge Tolbert, published in the New York Law-Journal
in 1990, demonstrates the court's ability to match specific evidence with
expert testimony on PAS (26). Judge Tolbert heard testimony on PAS
by two experts, including Dr. Gardner who was originally involved as the
court-appointed custody evaluator. The child in the dispute was a
9-year-old girl who was refusing visitation with her father. Father
retained his own psychological expert who testified that the child's refusal
to visit was the result of severe PAS on the part of the mother.
Father's expert recommended that the father be awarded custody, although
he did not interview the mother. Dr. Gardner testified that mother's
contribution to the child's refusal to visit constituted PAS in the mild
to moderate range and that the mother / daughter bond was basically healthy.
Based on the evidence presented, including the testimony of other witnesses,
Judge Tolbert concluded that the father's own behavior was a significant
contributing factor to the child's refusal to visit. Father had
been unreasonable and provocative toward the child's mother and his excessive
rigidity made him insensitive to his daughter's needs. Judge Tolbert
found that the facts of the case supported Dr. Gardner's testimony and
that the mother should retain custody. He ordered the parents to
participate in family therapy aimed at addressing the problems each of
them brought to the situation. Judge Tolbert opined that PAS is not
so much an emerging area of expertise as a phrase pioneered by Dr. Gardner,
similar to the view expressed by Sanders (30) and Waldron and Joanis (54).
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Judge Nakahara on PAS and the Role of the Court in Family Law
Judge Vernon Nakahara in Alameda County, California, served on the
family law bench for a year after many years as a criminal court judge
[Judge Nakahara provided the material in this section by personal communication
to author Deirdre Rand in 1997]. When the assignment expired, he elected
to continue as the judge for a particularly severe case of PAS. It
had taken him several months to grasp the complexities of the case and
he was concerned that the case would be set back if a new judge had go
through the process all over again.
Judge Nakahara learned about Gardner's concept of PAS from the testimony
of the court appointed reunification therapist for the child in a severe
PAS case. The idea made sense to him and helped to explain some of
the divorce family problems he was seeing. Upon reading the above
quote from the judge in Shutz v. Shutz, Judge Nakahara indicated that the
description was consistent with his experience. He observed that
the alienating parent in more severe PAS usually had significant psychological
problems. False allegations of abuse were also more likely to be
part of the equation. According to Judge Nakahara, varying degrees
of PAS were evident in most of the family law cases he heard, similar to
what Gardner (33) and Johnston (9) report. He cautions family law
judges to be aware that in addition to the child, professionals upon whom
the court relies may also be " brainwashed " by the alienating parent.
This includes attorneys, family court services and private counselors.
The opinions of various professionals who become involved should not be
accepted as authoritative simply because individuals designated as professionals
are making them. The opinions of professionals need to be tested
and critically evaluated by the court
Attorneys and parents also need to be held accountable. During
his term on the family law bench, Judge Nakahara did not allow the common
family law practice of the court relying on attorneys' representations
as to what their client / parents and other witnesses would testify to
if called. Similar to criminal cases, he insisted on live testimony
so he could test the credibility of witnesses himself. At first,
family lawyers in his courtroom were surprised that he expected them to
show substantial proof in support of their claims and of the client's position.
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They were also surprised by his readiness to impose sanctions.
Attorneys quickly learned that they needed to be more careful about their
representations in Judge Nakahara's court room and that they would be required
to back up their claims.
According to Judge Nakahara, holding parents accountable builds success.
Relieving a parent of sanctions builds failure and increases the likelihood
that unacceptable behavior will recur. Failure to impose sanctions
when sanctions are called for reinforces parents' disregard for court orders
and their belief that they can do as they please. When Judge Nakahara
threatened parents with sanctions, he gave them choices. One alienating
mother failed to take her child to 12 of the 15 court ordered therapy appointments.
Judge Nakahara gave her the following choices: 1 ) take the child for the
sessions; 2) spend a day in jail for each session missed; or 3) if mother
continued her refusal to cooperate, custody would be switched to the father.
At this point the mother decided to start bringing the child for therapy.
In another case, a parent with a pattern of visitation interference was
frequently tardy for visitation exchanges. Judge Nakahara required
the late parent to pay $ 1 for each minute past the appointed time.
He also applied sanctions for such issues as refusal to produce income
and expense information, failure to participate in court ordered alcohol
treatment and failure to attend the requisite number of anger management
classes.
When lesser sanctions failed to produce results, Judge Nakahara did
not hesitate to order that a noncompliant parent be taken into custody.
The first time he did this on the family law bench, it created a " shock
wave " throughout the county legal system-it had been five years since
a family law judge in the county had imposed this level of sanction.
Experience taught Judge Nakahara that five days in jail is the optimum
period of time to make a significant impression on a parent who persists
in violating and resisting court orders.
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Role of Attorneys
In the advocacy role, attorneys customarily allow the client to define
the goal of the attorney's efforts, zealously advancing the client's position.
In PAS cases, this approach may not be in the client's or the child's best
interest, especially when the attorney is representing an alienating parent
or a fully alienated child. Waldron and Joanis observed, " The lawyer
for the AP [Alienating Parent] has a difficult role. The AP has collected
evidence and invested time and energy in his or her role and has rectitude
and certainty on his or her side, or so he or she believes. The AP
wants badly for the lawyer...to agree with him or her. The lawyer
has been hired, however, for his or her knowledge and judgment " (54; p.
130). Waldron and Joanis recommend that attorneys who represent such
parents should advise their clients to terminate the behavior, in the best
interest of their case. Furthermore, " When an attorney...has been
appointed to represent the interests of the child...this attorney needs
to avoid being swept up in the seductive process of PAS and remain neutral,
with a focus on concrete evidence" (54; pp. 130-131). Sanders, who
primarily represents rejected / alienated parents, recommends that before
taking action, the attorney should determine whether the client is the
problem, interviewing collaterals, obtaining a polygraph, or asking the
client to undergo an independent psychological evaluation if necessary
(30). Similarly, Ward and Harvey assert, " It is incumbent on the
attorney to sufficiently explore the client's motivation and the reality
basis of the client's beliefs before litigation is undertaken " (49; p.
35).
Psychological Experts in Divorce
According to Sanders, attorneys representing target parents in PAS
cases must retain a strong psychological expert (30). For judges
unfamiliar with PAS, the expert's role in educating the court is essential.
Otherwise, the judge will most likely make orders which are not strong
enough to remedy the problem. This is especially true for judges
who are unfamiliar with family law cases and do not have a particular interest
in that area. In some jurisdictions in California, including Alameda
County where Judge Nakahara presides, judges are assigned to the family
law bench for a one year. Certain states, such as Colorado, do not
have a family court system. Judges in some districts can be assigned
to family law cases that they do not want, and their motivation to read
custody reports and be alert to alienation issues may be minimal (50).
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Sanders reported that when an alienated father is seeking custody,
he should have a psychological expert who is prepared to give a strong
opinion on the severity of the problem and the improbability that individual
therapy for the mother or a restraining order against alienating behavior
will be enough to remedy the situation (30). It may be crucial to
persuade the court that the child's relationship with the target parent
cannot be re paired unless custody is removed from the alienating parent.
Waldron and Joanis identified the danger in PAS cases of the professionals
who become involved becoming as split and contentious as the parents (54).
When possible, they recommend that mental health professionals who
become involved work collaboratively with each other and with the attorneys.
Depending on the circumstances, it may be possible for an expert who enters
the case on the side of one parent or the other to eventually become part
of the case management team, especially if the court orders it, as in the
case vignette of S, above.
Ackerman and Kane included a section on PAS in the 1991 supplement
to their reference work on psychological experts in divorce and other civil
actions (59). In a subsequent edition, information about Gardner's
work on PAS was included in the body of the text (60). Attorneys
in volved in difficult family law cases must be able to critically assess
the qualifications and work of mental health professionals. Family
lawyers may be expected to cooperate and participate in the selection of
a custody evaluator, case manager, or therapist for the child. Attorneys
must also be prepared to probe the findings of mental health professionals
and to cross-examine them.
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Family Law Versus Dependency Court
Decisions by the court in family law are based on "best interest of
the child," usually interpreted to mean that children are better served
when the court makes orders which enable them to maintain a positive relationship
with both parents. There is also support for the rights of the parents
to have a relationship with their children. The dependency system
is de signed to find abuse and to protect children from parents thought
to be abusing them. In dependency or juvenile court proceedings,
the state acts to protect children who are deemed to be at risk of being
harmed, with the court assuming the role of the custodial parent.
The juvenile court has the power to order a child taken into protective
custody prior to a hearing and can terminate parental rights. The juvenile
court may take jurisdiction in a family law matter even when the allegations
of abuse have been previously litigated in family law court and found to
be invalid (61 ).
Some alienating parents succeed in mobilizing the child protection
system (CPS) to help sever the target parent's contact with the child.
This is what happened in the case vignette of Mr. and Mrs. C in Part I.
The case was unusual for the fact that the alienating parent was a father.
He obtained custody of his daughter in dependency court after failing to
accomplish this goal during several years of family law proceedings.
Most of the CPS workers who became involved rejected the idea of PAS, despite
in formation from mental health professionals who had been recognized by
the family law court or who had provided therapy to the girl and her mother.
As this case demonstrates, CPS workers tend to be less familiar with the
dynamics of high conflict divorce. They are less likely to consider such
potentially contaminating factors as parental influence and repeated abuse
interviews of the child by police, social workers, therapists, and others.
In severe alienation, the alienating parent may move from one county or
state to another, beginning a new round of investigation into the abuse
allegations and seeking better support for terminating the target parent's
contact with the child (52).
On the other hand, when CPS workers are receptive to the experts' diagnosis
of PAS, CPS can help contain the alienating parent's behavior, as the following
case illustrates.
Mr. H successfully alienated his 11-year-old son and 9-year-old daughter
from their mother after learning of mother's desire to divorce. Prior to
the separation, mother was the primary parent. A court ordered custody
evaluation found her parenting ability to be average. Father and
the children used mother's new significant other as a rationale to vilify
her.
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The siblings played off each other and supported each other's extreme
and hysterical protestations of hatred against their mother. The
children did not see their mother for a year. A Special Master was
appointed who referred the family to a PAS expert for treatment.
When the therapist informed the children of his intention to hold a conjoint
counseling interview with them and their mother, the 11-year-old boy became
physically ill. Despite the therapist's efforts to persuade father
and children of the need for a meeting with the mother, they refused to
participate. The Special Master ordered such a meeting and still
father refused.
Finally, the PAS therapist contacted CPS and made a suspected child
abuse report against the father for severe psychological abuse in conjunction
with his alienating behavior. The social worker who talked to the
father and children was supportive of the therapist's concerns and agreed
to back him up. The therapist, too, met with the father. He told
Mr. H his reasons for the suspected abuse report and informed him that
CPS was prepared to intervene, possibly removing the children from his
home, if he did not turn the PAS situation around within a few months.
The therapist gave Mr. H Gardner's book on PAS to read and told him that
he was acting in this manner with his children. When father tried
to tell the children that they had to rebuild their relationship with their
mother and begin visitation, the children became angry and combative.
Father became frightened that he would have problems with CPS and might
be dragged into family law court by the children's mother. Mr. H
worked harder to turn the situation around. The CPS worker met with
the children twice and continued to advise father of the gravity of CPS'
concerns. Soon, the children were able to begin visitation with their mother
every other weekend. After several months, visitation was increased to
every other week with each parent. Father needed a great deal of support
to remedy the situation and mother was in a position to help him.
As a result, a mod erate degree of coparenting became possible and CPS
formally closed the case. At two year follow-up, the children were
doing well with both parents, a "win-win" solution for everyone in volved,
due to the willingness of CPS to work with the PAS expert.
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Criminal Proceedings Against a Falsely Accused Parent
A parent falsely accused of some criminal act in the context of a divorce/custody
dispute is at risk for prosecution. Like the juvenile court, criminal
courts are unlikely to be familiar with the dynamics of high-conflict divorce
and PAS (29). In the following case vignette, the accused father was an
officer in the military. Testimony on PAS by the defense psychological
expert provided the judge and jury with some alternative explanations as
to the reasons the children accused their stepfather of abuse.
Mr. B was court-martialed after being accused, in the context of divorce,
of molesting his wife's 10- and 14-year-old daughters from another marriage.
Mrs. B and the girls accused Mr. B after Mrs. B learned of her husband's
second infidelity. A similar sequence took place two years earlier
when Mrs. B discovered an infidelity. At that time, Mrs. B moved
out temporarily and called authorities to report that Mr. B was sexually
abusing her daughters. On that occasion, Mrs. B decided to move back
in with her hus band and withdrew the accusations.
The military defense attorney retained a psychologist with expertise
in PAS to testify at the criminal trial. The judge ordered the girls
and their mother to participate in an evaluation by the defense expert.
The military flew the family across the country several days before the
trial in order for this to occur. A female pediatrician in the military,
who planned to testify for the prosecution, accompanied the girls and their
mother to the defense psychologist's office. The pediatrician remained
in the waiting room and con versed with the family members and the psychologist
at different break points in the evaluation. The PAS expert ascertained
that the girls were very attached to Mr. B prior to their mother filing
for divorce.
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The biological father ran off when the girls were very young and Mr.
B raised them as his own. The molestation accounts given by the girls contained
numerous inconsistencies and were not supported by medical evidence.
Documents reviewed by the PAS expert also indicated that the children's
account had become more and more exaggerated with time. In the course of
the day at the defense expert's once, the number of incidents reported
by the girls went from the six counts with which Mr. B was originally charged,
to more than forty-five.
The court permitted Mr. B's expert to testify in regard to PAS with
false allegations of abuse. The jury found that the facts of the case conformed
to the defense expert's opinion, and the stepfather was found not guilty.
Points and Authorities for the Admissibility of PAS Testimony
California attorney Patrick Clancy posts his Points and Authorities
for the Admissibility of PAS Testimony on his web site, http://www. accused
com. The brief argues that testimony regarding Parental Alienation
Syndrome is necessary to establish a child's motive to fabricate, and that
such a motive is not readily apparent to the layman. Case law supports
the right of a parent/defendant who is charged with molesting his child
but maintains his innocence to establish motives other than his misconduct
for the child to hate, fear or falsely accuse him. The prosecution
in a murder trial, People v. Phillips, was allowed to introduce evidence
of Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy (MSP) as a possible motive for the mother
in killing her child. According to Clancy the defendant/parent accused
of abuse has a stronger case for the admissibility of PAS testimony than
the prosecution's case for the admissibility of testimony in regards to
MSP. The family court In Re Anne P. gave tacit recognition of PAS,
finding that the allegations of abuse abuse the father were false and that
the mother was responsible for the allegations, by virtue of her mental
disturbance and her unrelenting struggle with the father. Within
the year, mother contacted CPS and eventually a dependency petition was
filed. In this case, the juvenile court upheld the findings of the
family court, attributing the allegations to mother's "pure out and out
hatred....antagonism " toward the father.
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List of PAS Case Citations in Dr. Gardner's Web Site
A list of case citations involving PAS can be obtained from Dr. Gardner's
web site. The list is not necessarily up to date or exhaustive.
Dr. Gardner's address on the World Wide Web is: http://www.rgardner. com/refs.
FORENSIC EVALUATION AND PAS
Custody Evaluators on PAS
Kopetski reported on 84 serious PAS cases from a sample of 413 court
ordered custody evaluations in Colorado (63). The assessments were
conducted by the Family and Children's Evaluation Team (FCET), of which
Kopetski was a member. Their protocol included structured interviews of
each parent, obtaining developmental histories for the children, observations
of parent-child interaction and individual evaluation of the child. Be
ginning in 1988, formal psychological testing of the parents was performed
for all cases in which there were allegations of abuse, neglect, or a parent
was seeking to restrict or exclude the other parent's contact with the
child. Prior to learning of Gardner's work, the team independently
came to very similar conclusions. Kopetski characterizes PAS as a
form of psychosocial pathology in which a parent psychologically exploits
the child and appropriates social systems in order to achieve alienation.
The team's formulations reflect a social influence model and Clawar and
Rivlin's work is referenced. Bowlby's attachment theories were found
to be the most useful for understanding PAS. The team concurred
with Bowlby's observation that "strong" or "intense" parent-child attachments
are not necessarily healthy ones.
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In 18 percent of FCET's PAS cases, the alienating parent was successful
in preventing the children from having a relationship with the target parent
in spite of recommendations against alienation. "One of the most surprising
and discouraging findings in this survey was that in 15 families in which
a parent was successfully alienated, the alienation was supported by a
therapist on the basis that the child should not be separated from a `symbiotic
relationship' [with the alienating parent], even though the `symbiosis'
proceeded far beyond the time when such a parent-child relationship could
even remotely be considered. It was as though the therapists had
joined the delusion that the child could not survive if separated from
the symbiotic parent" (63; p. 13). Unlike Johnston who has been
supporting the idea of allowing children to remain in such relationships
(9, 10), Kopetski and her colleagues recommend placing the child with the
parent who has the most potential for promoting the child's psychological
and social development.
Nicholas, a psychologist who practices in California, conducted a survey
of custody evaluators about PAS (64). Twenty-one completed surveys
were obtained. He sought to determine whether there was a constellation
of identifiable signs and symptoms in the alienating parent, target parent
and the child which, occurring together, could be said to constitute a
syndrome as Gardner suggests. For the purposes of the survey, Nicholas
de fined PAS as the conscious or unconscious attempt by one parent to program
or coerce a child against the other parent; whether or not any notable
negative feelings, attitudes or behaviors were observed in the child.
Parent alienating behaviors were found to be highly correlated with children's
alienation symptoms and vice-versa. There were no significant correlations
between the child's alienation symptoms and 8 of 10 target parent characteristics.
Significant correlations were found, however, between child alienation
symptoms and two target parent items: 1) withdrawing or temporarily giving
up on the child and 2) becoming irritated and angry with the child for
exhibiting the alienating behaviors. The findings of Nicholas' survey
lend support to Gardner's contention that the core dynamic in PAS is between
the alienating parent and child, and that the target parent's behavior
is much less likely to be a major contributing factor. The majority
of evaluator/respondents in Nicholas' survey reported that in about one-third
of their custody evaluation cases, one parent was engaging in identifiable
alienating behavior. In about one-fourth of cases, evaluators' recommendations
were affected by the alienating parent's behavior.
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According to Stahl, another California psychologist, PAS is one of
the most complex issues custody evaluators may be called upon to assess,
along with allegations of spousal or child abuse and parent requests to
relocate (65). He is working on a new book with more extensive discussion
of PAS. Hysjulien, Wood, and Benjamin devoted special sections to
PAS, domestic violence and sex abuse allegations in their review of methods
commonly used by custody evaluators, including interviews and psychological
tests (66). There is no data which establishes the reliability and validity
of such interviews, which are often quite informal and semi-structured.
Psychological tests which are used for the assessment of individual
patients in clinical settings cannot be considered reliable and valid for
the evaluation of family systems in forensic settings.
Stahl opines that many custody evaluations are not geared to adequately
diagnose the pathology of an alienating parent and the complex family interactions
which produce PAS (65). This results in recommendations which are
too short-sighted for the true level of family dysfunction. He recommends
that evaluators go beyond the confines of the individual, clinical assessment
model and utilize more comprehensive, sophisticated methods, such as critically
analyzing case material from a longitudinal perspective and comparing information
provided by the parties during interviews with data from other sources.
Like PAS, Munchausen syndrome by proxy (MSP) is a complex psychosocial
disorder which involves a number of individuals. Assessment models
being developed for MSP are more specially designed to assess issues of
parental manipulation and deception, pathological parent-child relationships,
and the recruitment by parents of professionals as " third party participants
" in the parental agenda (13, 67). Complex deceptions by one or both
parents in high conflict divorce pose serious challenges to the legal system
( 17, 18).
In an effort to upgrade and standardize the conducting of custody evaluations,
the American Psychological Association (APA) published Guidelines for Child
Custody Evaluations in Divorce Proceedings in 1994 (68). The Parental Alienation
Syndrome: A Guide for Mental Health and
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In an effort to upgrade and standardize the conducting of custody evaluations,
the American Psychological Association (APA) published Guidelines for Child
Custody Evaluations in Divorce Proceedings in 1994 (68). The Parental Alienation
Syndrome: A Guide for Mental Health and Legal Professionals was one of
three books by Gardner listed under pertinent literature. Montgomery
expressed concern that custody evaluators were not using the APA guidelines
and that this was contributing to serious decision errors in assessment
and intervention with PAS and other high conflict cases (58). She
pointed out that attachment theories derived from work with young children
are being misused by custody evaluators to predict outcome for older children,
another source of error. Like Kopetski's group, Montgomery expressed
the view that attachment theory is of ten biased towards mothers and fails
to take into account the fact that even young children will attach to multiple
caregivers when the environment provides such opportunities and the child
is encouraged to do so. In severe PAS cases, Montgomery endorses
the type of intervention strategies which Gardner proposes, e.g., placing
the child with the target parent for several months.
According to Jones, Lund and Sullivan, who practice psychology in California,
the protocols which Gardner prescribes for custody evaluations (48) enable
evaluators to gain an in-depth picture early in the assessment process
(52). These presenters use Gardner's diagnostic criteria for identifying
PAS and believe it is important to educate the court about this diagnosis
so that the court will deliver the appropriate legal intervention.
However, they reserve the label PAS for severe cases, using " parental
alienation " for lesser manifestations. Jones, Lund and Sullivan
are conservative about recommending change of custody as an intervention
but have occasionally done so in severe PAS cases. Sullivan classified
alienating parents into " early and late starters ". Early starters
are those who begin generating the alienation dynamic early in the marriage.
Late starters activate the alienation dynamic in response to a trigger
event such as the separation and divorce process. Jones commented
on the fact that severe parental alienation is a form of child abuse, especially
when false allegations of abuse are involved.
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Forensic Assessment of Sex Abuse Allegations
Gardner's work on PAS is frequently referenced in the literature on
as sessing allegations of sexual abuse (69-74). In the context of
divorce, PAS is one of several possible explanations for abuse accusations.
Mapes asserted that any professional conducting forensic assessments of
alleged sex abuse, not just in family law proceedings, should be knowledgeable
about PAS as a possible motivating factor for false allegations (75). The
need for such knowledge is demonstrated in two of the case vignettes above,
in which PAS was the cause of false allegations of abuse in juvenile court
and criminal proceedings. According to Garbarino and Stott, adult
misinterpretation and misunderstanding of children's statements has reached
crisis proportions in legal proceedings of all kinds ( 16).
CONCLUSION
Parental Alienation Syndrome appears to be pervasive. The audience
response during a recent presentation at the Second World Congress on Family
Law made it clear that PAS is a social problem in other countries such
as Canada and Australia (58). The probable range of variations in the presentation
of PAS is likely to change according to the opportunities and limitations
of the complex network of people and agencies who become involved.
Outside social systems variously have the capacity to help ameliorate PAS
or to further solidify it. When alienation becomes complete, it can
amount to a de facto termination of parental rights. This includes
the fact that PAS children experience the loss of nuclear and extended
family, in addition to other long-term, detrimental effects. The judgments
that courts and professionals make are difficult, complex and have far
reaching consequences. Part III will explore the decision making
process with respect to diagnostic issues and intervention strategies.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Deirdre Conway Rand, Ph.D. practices clinical and forensic psychology
out of her office in Northern California in Mill Valley. She specializes
in complex forms of emotional abuse, such as severe Parental Alienation
and Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy (MSP). She is the author of several articles
on MSP and of two chapters in the book, Spectrum of Factitious Disorders,
published by the American Psychiatric Association in 1996.
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